Parents and children do not always agree on the same issues. That is why arguement erupt and people end up being more mad than they should. One of those topics that is a cause of an arguement is the teen wanting to go off on their own and do their own thing. This usually happens when the teen gets to be about 15 or 16, for some it may be later. But at this time in thier lives, they want to be with friends and always be doing something. They find it to be their time to go out and live the young life. Parents don't see it like that most of the time. Any parent can relate to worrying sick about their child, especially when they are not home. My own mom even says that she always thinks of the worst things happening to me if I get home too late. Which is fully understandable from a parents point of view.
Even though the ideas may differ on the going out sitution, there is a way to solve it without argueing. That way is sitting down and talking face to face about what would make both the parent and the teen happy. An example would be like talking to your parents about your curfew and what time they and you would feel fit perfectly. If all goes well, you should have a happy teen and almost worry free parents.
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