Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Seperation

As teenagers start gettting older and older, there is a seperation between the parents and child. Before the teen could drive, or even have the freedom they do have they were always around the parents. No matter where the parent was, you would always find their child with them. Slowly as they get older they want to go out with their friends, and have fun. This is a fact of what's going to happen with all teens. Parents need to learn to accept it and children need to learn how to do it the right way. A teen can't simply just seperate from it like it's nothing. But the parents need to know that they may be leaving you, but no matter what... they will always be your little gilr/boy. They may grow up, but their love for you never will.

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Point of view....

Sometimes I honestly don't know. I mean I show up a few minutes late for my curfew and it's the end of the world. They fuss and yell at me about how disrespectful that is. From my point of view I think they are wrong but the right thing to do would be to try and understand why they freak out like they do. From my view it only looks like I am a few minutes late and no harm was done. But from a parents point of view, they have so many worries and doubts running through their head. If you are late they assume the worst. They don't know if someone took you, if you were in a wreck, or if you were lying in a ditch somewhere. Why exactly do they do it? Well it's simple. They love you so much and wouldn't want anything or anyone to hurt you. That is probably why they put the curfew there in the first place. Having a parent that worries is honestly a blessing, because most kids don't have that available to them.

Friday, December 6, 2013

Blessed

I woke up today and realized how truly blessed I am to have the parents I do... They may get on my nerves and make me just wanna scream in anger, I wouldn't trade them for nothing. Some parents, and we all know it's true, don't know how to take care of their children. They either are WAY too strict on them or way too loose on them. Both of those have negative effects. If a parent is too strict, the child is more likely to rebel and become a problem child. Those children that are too loose on their children end up becoming something that no parent should be proud of. My parents are the perfect in between. They are strict on me yet give me enough freedom. I know I can get away with stuff but I know that when they get on to me, I know it's serious. All I know is I am beyond blessed to have them.